Putting You First!!!

Too many times I find myself putting others before me. Rather it be my kids, my job, TV or social media. The five minutes that I plan to spend on Social media always ends up being 45 minutes to 1 hour. So many times I find myself liking others accomplishments and success while allowing my own to be placed on the back burner. When celebrities have birthdays and parties I'm sending Happy Birthdays and spiritual Blessings their way and they don't even know me. I'm taking time out of my day to send positivity their direction and I can't even get a hello lol. How funny is that? Extremely! I had to sit down and analyze this shit for what it is...Pure ignorance. I have my own goals and dreams that I have to make a reality and every minute counts but I'm sitting around like a lost puppy focused on someone's lifestyle when I don't even have an invite to the table. With that being said sometimes you have to put all that on the back burner. Put you first! Yes it is okay to help your kids with homework because being a mother is a top priority but for every 2 questions you help them with let them work on the next 3/4 by themselves while you take time to do your own work. You can always go back over their work and make sure it's correct. Instead of always telling people yes start simply saying NO. Whatever someone is asking you to do that is taking away from time you can be putting into your business or whatever is important to you I need you to straight up and down tell them NO. I can't speak for anyone else but I know my biggest issue is "time". I always feel I don't have enough time to do what I need to do. Between making sure the worlds needs are met I'm never in the position to make sure my own needs are being met. So I have to put myself in the position to do so. In order for that to happen I must eliminate somethings or even some people. How about you? What advice can you give? What are somethings you've had to go without in order to fulfill accomplishments? Let me know...